It sounds cold because look after yourself sounds cold in English. Ra meant something specific. The new background carries the keynote of the sixth line of Gate 55, which he read as dedication to your own process rather than as selfishness in the moral sense. His line was that if you cannot dedicate yourself to yourself, there is little point dedicating yourself to anything else. And he said openly that this does not mean everyone will be alone.
This is not a fact, not medical advice and not a promise of healing. It is part of the cosmology Ra Uru Hu, who founded Human Design, left behind, and nobody knows exactly how it will unfold.
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